Has anyone had someone guilt trip you cause ur loosing weight

So I started loosing weight this year l'm 30 pounds down started at like 295 I think, but I'm naturally a tall and big guy l'm like 6'2 etc. so this last month I been trying to go to the the gym with my friends to make it more fun y not and basically there kinda smaller than me like 5'6, 5'8ish. But basically this whole month whenever we're lifting weights etc there like we wish you stayed fat or your gonna be taking all the girls now (mind u they know I have a gf) and I know those sound like jokes but when they say things like that it feels like there trying to bring my confidence down. The other day I was spotting this girl she was pretty and all my friends were just looking at me like wtf on there faces. After we finished they said it be better for me not to come with them. And I've know the guys since hs. Maybe there not my friends or there jealous but can pol really be like this. Sorry for the rant.