Got Caught Smoking W**d by My 16-Year-Old… How Do I Handle This as a Dad?

So, here’s the deal: I’m 36, generally a pretty straight-laced guy, and I’ve always tried to set a good example for my 16-year-old. I preach responsibility, honesty, and making smart choices. But, uh… last night? Tables turned.

My kid walked into the garage while I was mid-relaxation session with Mary Jane. I don’t smoke often—more of a “once in a blue moon” thing—but their face said it all. Not mad, not neutral… just a mix of confusion and “Really, Dad?” before they walked off.

Now I’m stuck. I’ve always told them to steer clear of substances until they’re older and can make solid decisions, and here I am caught doing the opposite. Do I own up and admit I goofed? Try to explain my occasional use without sounding like a hypocrite? Or just hope they forget this ever happened?

Parents of teens—or anyone who’s been in an awkward “caught red-handed” moment—what’s the move here? Could use some guidance (and maybe a little humor) to get through this one.