I'm here to discuss whether true love exists or not without any bias and looking it through objective perspective.
Meaning we need to give a definition of what is a true love? alot of subjective, but we take general standpoint what we all might means by it and the words definition
True Love = unconditional (not based in any needs-situation-rules or whatever), unbreakable(eternal, loyalty etc), genuine (truly care, truly love, just real and not fake).
Does it exist in the real world? Some people might say the only true love is the love of a parents to their children, but even that is conditional of natural biological human nature..also if your children be a criminal or whatever(really bad thing that make you love them less) - you might still love them because of your choice and biological but you may love them less..even you said otherwise its just a coping and a lie.
What about romantic love? It's the most flawed love to exist...it's conditional, breakable...only genuine part can be discuss. That's why we have a playful question of (do you still love me if Im a worm?) exist. It's all depends on the timing of when you guys met, your physical and personality attribute that suited with each other...then if somehow they lose the things that make you love them you might either love them less or dont at all..thats why theres alot of divorce happen - lack of money, lack of understanding, lack physical attraction, lack personality attribute (human can change anytime). Even after you dead, they will find another person to be in love with and replace you...that unbreakable part is done - it will break depends on the situation. Does it means you never love each other? ofcourse it does, its the genuine part that romantic love have some points to, even then we all can sometimes be fake because we dont want to hurt eachothers feeling.
For friendship, master, pet etc we can discuss with all the flaws and the good point it has...each one have pros and cons that we can discuss in the comment. So we come to the conclusion of it all.
The conclusion is = True love doesn't exist - to elaborate more it's exist in someway but not to the extend that we all hope it will be like (perfect), the true love in this world is flawed (the same as many other things). It's an ideal that we all craving for that doesn't actually exist in this flawed world.
I understand both the logical side and the idealistic side..it would be nice if we all can share our own perspective about it in the comment section...I love you all (its a choice) hope we can keep making progress towards the ideals of true love in this world. Thank you.
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