Do you ever feel like you’re conflicted on what type of “life” you should be experiencing?

Hey guys,

Lately I’ve been reading a lot on life design and how choosing the lifestyle you want is the best way to live as “authentically” as you can. Essentially it’s about figuring out what you value most, apply that into your lifestyle and then the rest flows.

I’ve often felt conflicted on what type of lifestyle I want because I feel I have “conflicting” values. I value accountability, respect, family, wisdom but also freedom, fitness, exploration and adventure. There’s a part of me that feels good with the big corporate job, living downtown, working hard and make a lot of money, climbing the ladder, getting a house, and then another part where I want to move abroad (someplace with a beach), not have a demanding job, not really caring about owning a home, possibly being a fitness instructor at some wellness retreat and travel/party at the coolest places. In either life, I envision a husband and kids.

Anyway - my question is - does anyone feel the same? How have you been able to cope with “conflicting” values?