breaking friendship patterns

3 weeks ago 6

I always sew posts about people who constantly date the same kind of toxic people but I've honestly never had that issue in the dating world but in the friendship world I find myself always ending up being with friends that are honestly just...done with life.

I always really enjoy their conversations and copmany but it eventually always just end up into the same pattern of us (mostly them) complaining and constantly putting ourselves in negative mindsets. These friendships also never end well and one even ended very traumatically.

I feel horrible saying this but a common theme I've noticed in all my past friendships is that the people just have no drive for life, like they dont have any passions or goals or if they do they never really work towards it and I'm starting to want to be around people that put me a positive mindset rather than a negative one . Anyone have any idea why I keep doing this or how to stop?? Any advice will be greatly appreciated

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