As I get older I realise why people don’t want kids.

When I was younger I used to be judgemental about people who did not want kids. However as I get older, I completely understand why.

You will barely have anytime to yourself. Your whole life will be catering for someone else. We barely have enough time for ourselves after work or our responsibilities, so that little time we do have will be dedicated to your kid/kids.

I used to think people who did not want kids were selfish. That may be true, but after getting older, I realise that it’s the ones who DO have kids and aren’t willing to provide for them or aren’t in a situation to provide for them who are the MOST selfish. No one asks to be brought in to this world.

So to all the GOOD parents out there, I salute you. It is a very difficult job. To all the people who don’t want kids, I completely understand why.