Anyone lived their lives non traditionally?

now that I am mid 30s I realised I havent been living my life traditionally. Idk if it is a good or bad thing I think it is just is. Like I never held a career, no job experience, didn't live it up in college by going out of state, lived with parents up until my late 20s, still live with roommates, no gf, no children, just really skating through life. It sounds bad from a societal standpoint but I honestly gave it some thought and don't think if my life were the opposite I would feel any differently.

anyone can relate? In life we can only choose a direction and hope for the best that it is the right one. But with a nontraditional approach you kinda get ostracize by society, namely your peers and family.

like by a certain age you should hit certain markers/milestones. You should have "your life figured out already". you should be mature/act your age. you shouldn't be living like you're still in your 20s. You should dress more professional and not like in college, etc etc. I can't help but feel like they're right but I feel like one is not totally free if they have influences affect their life. Thoughts?