anyone here been in so many relationships that they have stopped dating all together and love it?

I am a guy who's been in relationships for most of my adult life. I just turned 35 and I dont have the bandwidth id like to give to have another partner to live with (I dont see any positive besides being close physically and having fun convos but that stuff wears off when emotions for the other side start getting deeper and require more talking and the partner requires more time with you). The amount of time I wasted dating and I was only doing it because it felt like I should have a partner if I want to be happy. Does anyone else feel this?

there is regular posts here of people wishing they had a girlfriend but none of these so I thought id ask.