2 months ago
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Hi everyone,
I’m a 22-year-old guy who has never been in a relationship before. I’ve been told by several people that I’m good-looking and even have the potential to be a model, but I’ve never had any real luck with women.
I’ve tried following and reaching out to girls in my area on Instagram and Snapchat, but nothing ever seems to come of it. It’s frustrating because it feels like many guys my age are already in relationships, and I can’t seem to figure out what I’m doing wrong.
To be clear, I’m not looking for hookups or casual flings—I want to date with the intention of building something long-term, possibly even leading to marriage someday. I want to find someone I can truly love, share my life with, and create lasting memories.
Living in Germany, I often feel isolated and lonely, which makes this even harder to navigate. I’ve been focusing on improving myself and building a good life, but I feel like I’m missing out on the emotional connection a relationship could provide.
How can I improve my chances of finding someone? Are there better ways to meet people besides social media? Any advice or encouragement would mean a lot to me.
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